Both sets of preferences.
Where you want to live. Whether you want children. The life you’re hoping to build. A request should make sense for both people.
Personal introductions · In-person checksA shared future
A shared future
starts with
mutual intent.
You know what matters in a marriage. Tell us about your life. Our local families and introduction partners help us consider who could share it, with in-person identity checks before a recommendation.
No swiping. No open chat. A purposeful introduction.
Fewer assumptions. More understanding.Before an introduction,
Before an introduction,
make the important things clear.
Checks you can understand.
A phone check is different from an identity check. You should be able to see what was checked and what someone has shared themselves.
A clear next step.
A thoughtful request, a mutual decision, then an introduction. No open inbox to manage or endless messages to keep up with.
The difference is mutualA preference is
A preference is
only a fit when
it works both ways.
Some things are flexible. Others are essential. Our manual review considers that distinction and respects it on both sides.
See how preferences workOne preference. Two perspectives.Illustrative example
How important is living in the same city?
Your must-haveStay in my city
Their preferenceStay in the same city
A shared preference
This one preference aligns. Other must-haves still need to fit before an introduction.
An explanation of our approach, not a compatibility score.
Local people. Personal consideration.Real introductions
Real introductions
begin with real people.
We are accepting private applications. Our aim is three considered introductions over 6–12 months after acceptance, subject to suitability and mutual consent. No service charge at present.
Applications considered personally
Our local network covers the United Kingdom, United States, Canada, Pakistan, India and Morocco. Availability varies by city and individual preferences.
Begin your applicationA more intentional beginning
Begin your applicationBegin with what matters to you.
Begin your application. Share your profile for private, manual consideration.